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Writer's pictureKlodiana Alaj

How to attract lovely people

Updated: Oct 24, 2023

Today, I want to share with you how to attract people into your life using the law of attraction. This could be a friendship, a romantic interest or even your current partner. There are a number of things you can do to attract a person. This I think is hugely important. And, the suggestion is this. When you are focused on a person if you’re looking at them, if you’re interacting with them, make it your goal to focus on what you like about the other person. This sounds like a silly small thing but it’s actually a very big deal. Because, often if we are around somebody that we want to like us, instead of us thinking about what we like about that person, we’re usually sitting there thinking about our own insecurities. Like does this person like me, or am I funny enough for this person, and we project our worry and our insecurity onto that interaction. And, if I am sitting there with the person I want to go-create thinking am I good enough, or I’m not good enough that person is probably going to mirror back that insecurity to me…

And, not really shine back the light of attraction that I’m looking to receive from that person.

If instead, when I’m dealing with the person that I like, I’m looking at them and I’m thinking…


Wow, you’re so attractive

and you’re so funny,

and you’re so nice,

and, I really like you.


If you’re shining that light on someone intensely, you’re going to get back what you’re putting out there, thanks to the law of attraction.

So, always shift your focus from what others are thinking about you, and focus on what you like about them.




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Christine Graf
Christine Graf
Oct 06, 2023
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

This makes such good sense about focussing on what one likes about the other person in terms of attracting them. I have been doing this for many years now and have found some amazing friends and fellow artists.

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